Little Chloe's New Hair Style

很幸福

老公：老婆，你的眼睛为什么湿湿地？什么事？作甚么哩？

我： 老公，我在看这个yahoo blog 一屋四人一日一志，里面的MamA一家很幸福哩。看下看下 (malaysia华语)，提醒了我，幸福原来可以是那么简单的。

老公：是啦！(还搞不清楚状况就立刻赞同，并乘机教训我。) 你已经很幸福了，还在每天为那些芝麻绿豆的小事不开心。

我： 老公，我也觉得自己很幸福 ... 每次，当chloe很贴心地依偎在我怀里时，我就感觉很幸福 ... 每次，当chloe喊我mama时，我就感觉很幸福。每次，和chloe玩得兴高采烈时，我就感觉自己很幸福。每次，当握着chloe的小手教她学习走路时，我就感觉很幸福。老公，因为有chloe，我感觉自己很很很幸福！

老公：是啦！(一副“你现在才知道啊？”的样子。) 你已经很幸福了(repeat)！要知足懂吗？=-=

其实，我并非不知足啦 ... 只是常常对人对事对生活都要求很高，所以才搞到自己那么辛苦。sorry hor ... 不开心时老是乱乱blog，让大家担心了。well, 问题当然还没解决，我也不觉得有什么办法能够解决，可是每一次的风波都让我有个沈思的机会，检讨一下自己对长辈的行为及态度是否真的正确。长辈总是长辈，无论她的心态有多错，行为有多无理，作为小辈的我们唯有尽量包容、包容再包容。她要的，其实只是attention, respect and love。当我们已尽力了，问题还是没法解决的话，我们也就问心无愧了。

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婆媳问题

这个问题老是处理不当。实在觉得自己是个很没有智慧的人。

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Updates

i know i haven't been updating this blog much lately ... things have been very hectic for me and hubby, part of it cuz we have been really busy with the house & car searching, settling down and stuff like that ... another reason ... I know it's weird ... but I just don't feel like writing.

anyway, pls accept my apology for the lack of posting as of late. let me give you guys an update after a long lapse of no news.

firstly, we found out that hubby's eldest uncle (dua gu) is down with blood cancer, 4th stage. when talking to hubby's cousin, I could feel how upset he is from the way he talks. however, i have faith that if dua gu strictly follow those methods that cancer survivors provided, he will sure win the battle. jia you, dua gu! my prayers and thoughts are with you!

secondly, we bought our first home in Penang. It is a condo. everyone keeps asking us why a condo? thought everybody in Malaysia should be living in landed cuz the properties are so cheap compared to Spore. Ya ya ... We thought the same too ... but after first round viewing, we were shocked to know that a livable inter-terrace in Penang will easily costs u close to a mil of Ringgit Malaysia. Ya. Only S$400k+ ... but to us, it is still unaffordable cuz we are earning RINGGIT now. after taken everything into consideration, we have decided to buy a brand new, but second hand condo. the first hand owner has at least earned around 150-200k out of it. ya ... timing is the key thing. we are late, so we have to pay the price. the condo looks comfy to me, i really hope to move in asap.

thirdly, FIL spoken to us with regards to MIL's problems. ya ... again ... MIL complained a lot about us. FIL wants us to solve this problem asap, while he thought it might be a good idea for us to move out. sigh ... i am not able to go into details now ... m so damn fed up!